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Kayhynn
Ladies and gentlemen,

This is the friendly voice of the moderators speaking, reminding you of some important things that certain individuals, who will remain unnamed for the meantime, seem to be forgetting when they start "debating" in heated topics.

Lately, Ghis and I have noticed an increase in personal attacks and trolling over opinions in topics such as the Abortion discussion, Christianity, etc. Trolling, flaming and flat out being an asshole are things that are not tolerated on these forums. To make it a little clearer to you, while you may -have- "freedom of speech" you are on a private forum and we have rules that we will enforce. If you continue to be a troll and flame/bait/attack others, we will have no course of action to take other than a banning.

Please remember that bannings come in three steps. 24 hours....48 hours...72 hours....permanent.

Please remember, that just because someone disagrees with you over a topic, does not mean they are wrong and you are right. Everyone is entitled to their opinions without being bashed or attacked by others for them. Opinions are opinions. They are not fact, so please stop taking them as such. Also, just because someone posts something that is against what you believe does not make it a personal attack. It is a variation of opinion. For fucks sake quit taking it personally.

This is our friendly reminder to keep things civil.

We don't want to have to put a ban on controversial subjects, but the way responses are going in the topics, it's putting us on an edge of having to treat individuals like children rather than mature adults.

Savvy?

--Kayhynn
I3lind
Sticky? just to be safe wink.gif
carcer
If you aren't sure you are right how can you convince others?

I won't start that up, I will do my part and play nice.
Kayhynn
Do you really want my anwer to that question you stroke through? I'll give it anyhow =P

"Evil is relative. You can't hang a sign on it. You can't touch it or taste it or cut it with a sword. Evil depends on where you are standing, pointing your indicting finger."
--Glen Cook, The Black Company

Also.

There are no self-proclaimed villains, only regiments of self-proclaimed saints. Victorious historians rule where good or evil lies.
-Glen Cook The Black Company

You can be sure you're right. Othrs are also sure they are right. Just because you have difficulties with expressing your views in a less than aggressive manner doesn't meant you are any less right, it just means you are incapable of expressing things in a friendly non-aggressive manner.
Ghislord
anybody else thinks that an educated woman with power is a sexy thing? tongue.gif
carcer
That is idealogical thinking, I fully agree we should play nicer on the forum but history has shown being friendly and unaggressive is the bain of most failed cultures. Like my people for example.

QUOTE(Ghislord @ Feb 29 2008, 06:17 PM) [snapback]167030[/snapback]
anybody else thinks that an educated woman with power is a sexy thing? tongue.gif

wub.gif I do.
Kayhynn
Well, I suggest you learn it. In case the subtlt hints haven't worked for you, every time you reported someone else to moderators, you were reporting yourself.

Think of it this way: Just because someone flames you doesn't mean you have to do it in turn.

This is my annoyance meter on a good day None---->MIld

Today it's None----->Annoyed as fuck.

Keep in mind that i have been being extremely civil the whole time of the heated discussins and neither Ghis nor I have given any of the offending members, minus one, a warning.

That should say something to my nicitude.
carcer
It does, anyone could tell this thread was directed towards the the people I was arguing with and myself. I will be less aggressive on the forum. As for in real life... after 12 years of being raised and trained for military service, I simply don't know any other way. I graduate next month, enlist and start my official military training asap. I am going to miss my long hair.
pentheraphobia
I'm really into these DnD alignments all of a sudden, and what Carcer just said reminded me of one.
"Soldiers who follow the chain of command but enjoy killing for its own sake" were classified as Lawful Evil o.O

Back on topic, I have been trying to fix the problem that was pointed out earlier. And seeing as how I haven't been on today, when Kay said she became particularly mad, does that mean I was not at fault? I need to know so I can figure out if I'm on the right track.
Ghislord
Just because things were said yesterday doesn't mean we read them yesterday.

if that doesn't answer your question...
MantaLord
Yes Sir Right Away Sir!
Perpetual
I prefer "Sir, yes sir!" myself, it's a classic. As far as the modding has been going, you two are very lenient compared to most forums. By most forums, I wouldn't have gotten away with that aggressive-mediation tactic I took that started back up my mediation compulsion, at least without a warning.

This forum is good people.

Sir, yes sir!
Grym
QUOTE(Perpetual @ Feb 29 2008, 04:31 PM) [snapback]167088[/snapback]
By most forums, I wouldn't have gotten away with that aggressive-mediation tactic I took that started back up my mediation compulsion, at least without a warning.

Pishaw. I've done it before, and never gotten banned. Of course, I was only addressing Penther. And my post was shorter. mellow.gif
Perpetual
Oh, I doubt I'd get banned for it on any forum. I would have gotten a warning, however, and doing it too often would definitely result in a ban.
pentheraphobia
QUOTE(Grym @ Feb 29 2008, 04:37 PM) [snapback]167091[/snapback]
Pishaw. I've done it before, and never gotten banned. Of course, I was only addressing Penther. And my post was shorter. mellow.gif


Although you saw it as bannable, I didn't see it as such. I didn't see anger, I saw emphasis. :0
Zoran
QUOTE(Ghislord @ Feb 29 2008, 12:17 PM) [snapback]167030[/snapback]
anybody else thinks that an educated woman with power is a sexy thing? tongue.gif


Shush you, hitting on Kayhynn.... perv.



<3
CanadianWonder
Was i a bawd boy wink.gif
JK.....
but really was i the cause? or any part of it?
Grym
I doubt it. You're brand new. You don't even have a nickname.
CanadianWonder
When do you get one anyways?
Grym
When someone finds one fitting. It used to be David, with a bit of Lisa and Verb, but now that David and Lisa have left I guess it's all down to Verbose and anyone else who takes up the mantle.
CanadianWonder
I WANNA NICKNAME!!! sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif
Perpetual
Don't worry. I still don't have one. Everyone just calls me "Perp". Unless they're referencing the slang term, that's just a shortened version of my name.
carcer
The only nickname I have been called is by rabies and she hasn't been posting lately.
pentheraphobia
I've got a variety...
Pen, Pent, Penth, Penthera, and (my personal favorite) Penny. o.O
Perpetual
QUOTE(carcer @ Feb 29 2008, 04:50 PM) [snapback]167237[/snapback]
The only nickname I have been called is by rabies and she hasn't been posting lately.

Verb calls you a few. Mostly Carcinogen.

QUOTE(pentheraphobia @ Feb 29 2008, 04:56 PM) [snapback]167243[/snapback]
I've got a variety...
Pen, Pent, Penth, Penthera, and (my personal favorite) Penny. o.O

I'm glad you... Like it? Penny's the one I use, it's fun.
pentheraphobia
I'll look back if I have to, but I think Rabies was the first to use it...
Grym
QUOTE(CanadianWonder @ Feb 29 2008, 07:47 PM) [snapback]167232[/snapback]
I WANNA NICKNAME!!! sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif

Fine. You are now naids.
Kayhynn
And guys...seriously....derailing a thread like this -isn't- in your best interests.

Penth, it was directed at you and others. Does that answer the question? Despite me saying we weren't naming names?
pentheraphobia
I know it was directed towards me and others, and I don't mind naming of names, that way I'd know crystal clear what's going on, for me, at least (lots of commas o.O). Fourth time I said now, I've already been going through a personality overhaul to fix the problem.
Grym
QUOTE(Kayhynn @ Feb 29 2008, 08:02 PM) [snapback]167254[/snapback]
And guys...seriously....derailing a thread like this -isn't- in your best interests.

I'm sorry Kay.
*Shoves nose up Kay's ass*
CanadianWonder
Sowwy
Guh?
QUOTE(Kayhynn @ Feb 29 2008, 10:14 AM) [snapback]167029[/snapback]
"Evil is relative. You can't hang a sign on it. You can't touch it or taste it or cut it with a sword. Evil depends on where you are standing, pointing your indicting finger."
--Glen Cook, The Black Company


To be fair, Soulcatcher was a bitch no matter where you stood.

On topic.. I'll continue with keeping in my relative dislike and taking my anger out on my good friends.
Vegos
QUOTE(Ghislord @ Feb 29 2008, 07:17 PM) [snapback]167030[/snapback]
anybody else thinks that an educated woman with power is a sexy thing? tongue.gif


Ohhhh yes.
Kayhynn
QUOTE(Vegos @ Mar 2 2008, 01:37 PM) [snapback]168649[/snapback]
Ohhhh yes.


Suck ups. All of you.

BTW....after the flaming and trolling I've seen today...you all are on your last warnings. The 24 hour cool off periods will be beginning no matter what.
Sayuri Kajira
QUOTE(Guh? @ Feb 29 2008, 10:38 PM) [snapback]167530[/snapback]
On topic.. I'll continue with keeping in my relative dislike and taking my anger out on my good friends.


I knew we served a better purpose.

QUOTE(Kayhynn @ Mar 2 2008, 07:25 PM) [snapback]169108[/snapback]
BTW....after the flaming and trolling I've seen today...you all are on your last warnings. The 24 hour cool off periods will be beginning no matter what.


I don't see the point (and this is just me) of getting worked up over speaking with people you don't know. I'm more into having heated debates with people I know and have to deal with.
Ghislord
Okay! Enough!

this topic isn't up for debate or discussion. it's a matter-of-fact type thing. Now buckle down because what I've seen of the events that have gone down this weekend, Kay did a hell of a job not baning the lot of you for a 24 hour period. I know I would have. Now, I understand that a certain someone stirred up some pretty bad shit and he'll get what he deserves but, as many of you did do, the only implication in the matter would have been to hit the "Report" button and move on.

Now I'm closing this topic and I'm keeping it pinned and, as Kay said. There are no more warnings to be had.

Penalities WILL ensue

G!
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