Seems a bit paranoid to me, but it's not completely wrong.
Fun. That makes two against Carcer. Who's up next?
The way I saw it, Gobby was saying that most forum posters are narrow-minded fools, and that you weren't. It was a compliment, not a boast. Even if it was a boast, it was still a compliment. Even more-so, since (in the context of boasting) he thinks you're as smart as he is.
Carce, calm down. I seem to be saying that to a lot of people today. You're just asking for trouble.
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Also, it is conceited to rate compare your intelligence with someone else. Typically people who speak of how intelligent and wise they are they are not as nearly of either as they think they are. I am not implying anything by this, just letting you know I think this and warning you that others do to.
No, you weren't implying anything. You outright said he was conceited for comparing his intelligence with anyone, which, can or cannot be conceited depending on the situation.
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Maybe you were trying to complement me however, implying that someone is at the same intelligence as you is considered less of a compliment and more of the person saying, " I am as smart as you!" and can be considered insulting. I personally feel I take natural intelligence out of the equation by the obsessive amounts of research I do on a day to day basis and for someone to try to say they are equal to me without the level of dedication I have put into my studies does not feel like a complement at all.
As for me keeping arguments going, I am immature and I hate to lose. On top of that I also openly admit i have a severe mental disorder(ptsd). Everyone has there flaws it was rude of me to point out one of yours and I am sorry I offended you.
You're digging yourself deeper! This is getting out of control. You just did the very thing you consider conceited, insulted him, his attempt to be friendly, his compliment, and made yourself look arrogant.
Keeping arguments going is not immature. Good of you to try to apologies, but you insulted him
again in the attempt! He didn't do anything wrong that I could see. He was complimenting you, take the compliment and be happy you got it.
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He said something very similar to me in a negative tone, and you suggest he uses the same thing he opposed. I tell you, he's very hard to converse with. This isn't the only hole I've seen in his views, although he covers the holes up pretty well. I don't know him well enough, I'm no one to judge.
Don't you start that, again.
Carce, please don't respond to Penny. Or, if you do, don't do it in anything less than civil tones.
Gobby, I like you. You seem to be a good guy, and you gave a noble effort.
May your posts be civil and kind.